Life
is a journey, where in we continuously learn, grow and evolve. Even the smallest
and tiniest of things has the ability to teach you something significant. Everything
around us, no matter how tiny or large, it is has a story to tell and a lesson
to teach.
Life unravels itself only when we are willing to listen, only when we leave
all our prejudices and stereotypes behind and have an open mind.
Rubix
cube a 3D puzzle, is widely considered to be the world’s best selling puzzle
games ever. It is cube, with 6 sides and each side has different colors. The
challenge is to sort all the blocks of each color on the same side.
It’s
not so simple, there are various challenges you will encounter when you try to
solve the cube. And these challenges can be reflected on to our lives, to have
a better understanding of the situations we face in life. Let’s see what a
Rubix cube has to say about life lessons:
A Rubix cube has 6 sides. The aim is not to get sorted only one side, we need to sort all the
sides, in order to have perfected the solution.
In life we often look at just one surface of the people
which appears to be perfectly sorted out and compare it with our one side which
has most chaos; we presume how big a failure we are and we go to the extent of
predicting our whole future as miserable.
We picture people having everything sorted based on
the limited knowledge we have about them. And in our anxious being the more we
try to sort ourselves out, the more chaos we create.
We comfortably forget that we in our lives have many
more aspects to be taken care of. And life
just cannot be written off by just one presumably perceived failing aspect.
Or sometimes, it may also happen that we have sorted
out only one side of ours and our ego makes us believe, we have everything
sorted. And our false belief may inflate our egos to such an extent that ward
off or kick away those who dare to question our success.
Both the ways of thinking are harmful to us.
As already pointed out, life is multidimensional; we
need not panic even if we don’t have a single thing sorted. What matters is how
much effort you have put in sorting out all the aspects and how much close to
completion you reach. You need to look at it from an all inclusive perspective.
Life’s
rewarding system is a little complex, it’s not all based on the end result, the
path, process and the ideologies you adopt in life, play a vital role in
determining your rewards.
Let us assume you are close to perfectly sorting out
one side in a Rubix cube, and you may find it impossible to sort those missing
blocks, without having to rearrange or disturbing the sorted ones.
Thus in life it so happens that we are close to
achieving something and are severely disheartened when we realize that we were
so close and failed, but in reality what we need to understand is, we were
close. Yes , we still are close to achieve
whatever we set out for, only if we are
ready to have a moment of self reflection; to understand where we stand,
carefully reevaluate and re access our situation.
We should be
willing to drop our egos and reevaluate, we should be willing
to accept that we are humans and may err at times. When we do this carefully,
the solution / the victory is inevitable.
As in a Rubix cube where the ultimate goal is to get
all the sides sorted, we need to keep this mind, right from the beginning. If we have a short sighted focus on only
one aspect of life then sooner or later we will realize it as all for a waste.
We can be so much obsessed about something that we
totally forget about everything else. This mad race, this mindless stress and
strain which we put ourselves into, is what needs to be rectified.
Life is not a race so that we sort out that “one”
thing as soon as possible and then rest forever. We are here for a life time of learning, you cannot escape from that.
The goal is to reach as close as possible; to reach
the fruition in each and every aspect of life. We need to carefully play all the sides in a careful manner, to move
closer bit by bit and aspect by aspect in life, to evolve ourselves successful
out of it.
During the initial phase when everything is in utter
chaos, we feel it’s easy to sort but as we move towards closure / final stages,
it becomes difficult.
It’s the same in life when you take up something
initially everything moves smoothly, everything feels heavenly and we are more
than happy to be there.
But when those circumstances become tough and difficult
to endure. We are ready to give up, without realizing how close we are to the
closure.
It is in fact
the time for us to be more careful about our approach, to be more careful about
your strategies.
We often tend to feel disheartened and abandon the
task. It s all about going that extra
mile to achieve the outcome, holding on it for a little while more, it’s
about the patience and perseverance
and having a “ no giving up “ attitude.
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